Ah, “cuffing season” – that time of year when the temperature drops, and suddenly everyone seems to believe it’s mandatory to couple up. Social media, magazines, and well-meaning friends often jump on this bandwagon, talking about how “it’s time” to find someone to hibernate with through the winter. But hold up – at Thursday, we’re all about saying two fingers up to that!
Why? Because societal trends shouldn’t dictate how or when you date. No calendar, season, or trend can tell you when it’s the right time to connect with someone. Relationships should happen organically, in your own time, and on your own terms – not because you’re feeling pressure from holiday commercials or because you want someone to take cute autumn selfies with.
What’s the Rush?
Here’s the truth: there’s something truly special about being single. Yes, you heard that right. Single life isn’t something to “get through” or a phase to “cure” with a relationship. It’s a time for self-discovery, growth, and freedom. Being single means you have the luxury of focusing entirely on yourself – your passions, your dreams, and building the life that suits you. You don’t owe cuffing season, or anyone else, the responsibility to fill a space in your life that isn’t ready for someone yet.
Think about it: you have time. Time to take up new hobbies, binge-watch the shows you actually want to see, or travel on spontaneous trips (maybe look at this Thursday Ski Trip that’s dropping hint hint) without having to consider someone else’s schedule. More importantly, time to get to know you better.
Because Here’s the Thing – It Won’t Last Forever
Let’s be real. While being single may feel endless at times (especially with society constantly telling you to “find someone”), the truth is, this phase of your life won’t last forever. Eventually, whether you like it or not, you’ll find someone who makes sense for your life. But if you’ve spent your single years just rushing to find the “right person” rather than embracing this moment, you might miss out on enjoying what’s already in front of you.
At Thursday, we believe in dating with intention and excitement – not because some season says it’s time. You don’t need to rush into relationships just to feel validated during the colder months. In fact, doing so can sometimes lead to settling or ignoring red flags simply to avoid being alone. And trust us, that’s never a win.
Enjoy the Ride
The beauty of life is that everything happens at its own pace. Don’t let the trends push you into thinking that being single in fall or winter is a problem to solve. This season, maybe you don’t need a cuddle buddy. Maybe you need a you buddy, someone who takes care of themselves, enjoys the freedom to make their own plans, and understands that when the time is right, everything will fall into place naturally.
So when cuffing season comes knocking on your door with all its societal expectations, just wave two fingers and enjoy your ride. Whether single, dating, or something in between, you’re exactly where you’re meant to be, on your terms, in your time.
Two fingers up to cuffing season. You do you.
Thursday x
