Thursday | (Personality) Date or Pass irl (25-35) | Berlin

Just a bar, everyone single. Because the world in 2025 is all about meeting IRL, not on dating apps!

See you there!

🌟 80 Singles, one venue. 25-35.

✨ Date or Pass IRL: Personality Edition ✨

A social game meets personality matchmaking — live at Volksbar!

Ever wondered if you’d “date or pass” based purely on someone’s personality? No swiping, no photos — just vibes, banter, and chemistry.

💘 How it Works

There are two types of tickets:
🎟 Participants — take part in the game
👀 Spectators — enjoy the show and afterparty

When you arrive as a participant, you’ll receive a wristband and be divided into two groups: female and male. Once the game begins, a screen will separate the two sides — you’ll hear, but not see, your match.

Each round, a pair of participants will sit and answer 5 personality-based questions — fun, flirty, and a little deep.
At the end of the round, both will decide:
🔥 Date (match!) or ❌ Pass

– If both choose Date, you finally get to see each other!

– If one passes, the “smasher” stays in the game to meet the next participant.

– The game continues until it’s a match or mutual pass.

The session lasts around 45 minutes — a mix of laughter, tension, and unexpected connections.

🎭 After the Game

Stick around for a 15-minute comedy show featuring hilarious real-life Berlin dating stories, hosted by Lulu Johnson, the creator of Dating in Berlin.

🍸 Stay for the Night

Whether you played or watched, the evening continues at Volksbar, where everyone can mingle, chat, and maybe meet their real-life “smash.”

✨ Ticket structure

Participants tickets: 5€ Early Bird pre 8.00pm, 8€ General Admission pre 8.00pm

Spectators tickets: 10€ Early Bird tickets pre 8.30pm, 15€ General Admission ticket pre 8.30pm, 20€ At the door ticket post 8.30pm. After 8.30pm, it’s one in, one out.

🎫 When the event sells out, there will be more tickets released at 7.30pm on the day of the event and entrance will be at the venues/hosts discretion.

⏰ PLEASE AIM TO ARRIVE FOR 7.30PM!

🪪 PHYSICAL I.D. REQUIRED. NO REFUNDS. 21+

🥰 Many attendees (40%) come by themselves, so even if you’re the only single in your friendship group, don’t hesitate to join us solo. You’ll find yourself in great company.

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